Wait until you’ve built a mini rapport Once someone (finally) responds, most men want to skip right to asking her out.The whole point of dating online is get offline, but it’s unlikely she’ll say yes if you don’t build a rapport first.
Either way, make sure you end with a question so it’s easy for her to write back.
So you’ve found a match that you’re interested in and the feeling is mutual but now what do you do?
Meeting in person is the crucial next step but how long should you wait before you suggest or agree to it? It’s exciting to see a new email from a love interest; you can read their romantic messages over and over again, reading between the lines and developing all sorts of fantasy scenarios in your head.
This approach has many advantages; you can learn more about someone within 10 minutes of meeting them than you would in hours of carefully constructed emails.
This is also a good approach for people who aren’t very confident expressing themselves in writing.
This is perfectly understandable, and you shouldn’t meet anyone if you’re unsure or uncomfortable about it.