That’s why Winfred said, and I quote, “she’s got a boyfriend and he sucks.” But you don’t know that for sure, do you? She’s got Winfred when her boyfriend doesn’t treat her well. First off, if you’re hanging out, and you like her, you’re not going to be meeting anyone else.That’s a problem, because you’ll be pining after someone you can’t have, and might miss out on another wonderful girl that’s into you (and doesn’t have a boyfriend, which immediately makes her better than this one).The discussion we have could end up helping many of them out.Let’s start with the basics: this girl has a boyfriend.Especially if she tells you, "Yes I do have one." Then what do you say?Because of this, sometimes it can be easier not to ask directly, and instead, find out if she's dating or not from a friendly conversation, the way she acts, or with a little help from common friends.
As a ground rule, if a woman is seeing someone else, you don’t owe her anything.By forging this friendship, she may begin to like things about you that your competition doesn’t have.