Nall is currently pursuing her Bachelor of Science in Nursing at the University of Tennessee.
You feel committed to your guy, but are not sure he feels the same.
He senses that the reason she wants to move forward is more about satisfying unmet emotional needs than about true connection and appreciation.
On the other hand, when a woman is selective about how and when she moves into a more serious and committed relationship, she’s coming from a place of inviting the man to be with her, but at the same time being clear that her life is going to continue forward and be full and rich no matter what a man does.
As long as you respect the feelings of the people you see and are truly looking for qualities that will lead to long-term love, it’s okay not to go steady with someone as of the first date.
Here are some of the many advantages to going on dates with different people while making a decision about who is the best candidate for commitment.
So, to keep that rush alive people tend to push the boundaries of when to talk to or text their other girl.
And one of the unspoken standards that is most attractive to a man is a woman who is what I call “selective.” HOW BEING SELECTIVE MAKES HIM WANT ONLY YOU When a man has an easy time having a woman fall for him, or a man sees a woman acting in a way that says she will not be okay without his love and commitment, then a man is turned off.
Overly suspicious behavior, however, can harm a relationship.