When you look at e Harmony’s 29 Dimensions® of Compatibility, you find: Conflict Resolution, Physical Energy (i.e., likelihood to sleep a lot or a little), and Traditionalism (which has a big aspect of spirituality or religiosity).
There are also closely related characteristics like Industriousness and Ambition, which relate to how you view money and hard work, and Sociability, which helps drive the interests and pastimes you have. Heisler proposes are important are taken into account in our matching system. First he states that two individuals who are exactly alike often get bored with their relationship, which implies that e Harmony wants to match people who are exactly alike. Every person is an individual; no two people are exactly alike.
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When partners share these traits they see the world in the same way and understand each other better, that makes a relationship easier.
When people are opposites on characteristics and values that are important to them they may end up debating those differences time and again.
These challenges are often rooted in differences in vantage points and communication styles.
People with ADHD make sense of the world differently than others.
e Harmony’s matching system matches people who have generally similar personality traits, values, and beliefs that are core to who they are as a individuals.What the movies don’t show is what happens during and after the couple’s fights, when all the making up is over.What happens when the children are waking you up at all hours of the night, dirty clothes are strewn all over the floor, and the pile of bills keeps getting bigger?While it is always difficult to end an intimate relationship, research indicates that some ways of breaking up are better than others.
In fact, it is possible to learn how to break up with someone compassionately and effectively.There was a blog post in Psychology Today yesterday that had the provocative title “Sorry e Harmony, Compatibility Can be then Most Overrated Factor in Relationship Building”. Or is the author simply misinformed about what e Harmony actually does. Some of the areas he says you should pay attention to are conflict resolution, sleeping, spending money, recreation, spirituality, eating, and pastimes.