On one side, you get a brilliant, stimulating mind, which really turns you on… Before I forget, there was one other thing I wanted you to consider: Very smart. Sounds like the price you pay for dating a great conversationalist is pretty steep, huh? for example, if you got rejected or didn’t get a call back after a date, you won’t internalize it and lash out or get depressed.In the same way, you won’t over text someone or overshare either.According to his Tinder profile, Liam Nelson, 26, likes good music and good food. He knows it’s entirely subjective.“It’s no different from saying, ‘I’m attracted to brunettes.’ It’s not some sort of strict rule. To Nelson, who is straight and works as a recruiter in Toronto, this means not necessarily a woman’s IQ but her emotional maturity and open-mindedness.
There’s nothing wrong with being attracted to or desiring intelligent partners but like anything you place a high value on, it’s important not to be blinded by it and make assumptions about qualities, characteristics and values that they might possess with that intelligence.
Recently I’ve found that quite a few readers place a high value on intelligence in their partners and it’s often the primary value that concerns them the most.