A study by Sidekick says the perfect subject line is unique to the recipient and contains 30 characters or less, just to name a few suggestions.Same goes for the entire message in general — keep it short! If you want to be the most boring, unoriginal person who has ever reached out to this woman, then simply say “Hi, how are you?" A specific question about something someone will remember with fondness is a lot more interesting to answer than, "How's your week going? Based on a not at all peer-reviewed study, 90 percent of people using online dating apps are bored out of their minds. You're the princess, he's the prince, and you call out to him: "Oh, won't some hero come save me from this stifling castle keep!" Also, maybe you also loved that book/movie/food item, and now you guys have something in common and are going to be watching Foreign Thrillers with Strong Female Leads together forever! " It's a little unorthodox, but anything's better than "Sup?
If she uses a picture of her ziplining through the jungle, you might try to appeal to her adventurous side. Try to pick up on what she is passionate about — she'll be more apt to respond if you ask her about something she’s interested in. If you ask about something you are mutually interested in, you'll have a much easier time keeping the conversation flowing.
The only problem is that the high number of women who are looking for the right partner attracts an even higher number of men who dream about being that perfect partner.