By Tracy Achen Are you looking for some dating tips to ease your way back into the singles scene? Its uncharted territory, but it can be very rewarding to step outside your comfort zone.Dating after your divorce can be intimidating not only logistically, but also emotionally. Dating as a single parent is a whole different ballgame than it was before you had kids. It can sometimes seem like everyone has an opinion about whether you should date or not.Written by Joan Thatiah for Mums Village Motherhood changes a woman.These changes are more intense if a woman is a single parent. From my own dating experiences, here are things that you should know about dating a single mother. If you want to get with single mother, do not expect her to place your wants and needs before those of her child.Jaxn highlights the likely domestic skills a single mother brings to the table, she can cook and will have good go-to recipes. He graciously acknowledges that there's nothing wrong with a woman hitting the club, but it's unlikely a single mum will be out every night because she has a child at home to look after; the implication being that women can't control themselves and when she's at home at night she's away from the temptation to stray.With single mums you get a preview of the kind of mother she will be, you get a woman who won't be judgemental, who will understand you, who is already financially independent and by extension not a gold digger after your money. I don't care where you see me or what I'm doing, get my attention so I can thank you for your support. #blackboyjoy @sunkissedj84 @sassymami1981A post shared by Self Love Ambassador (@derrickjaxn) on 1.
Derrick Jaxn, who boasts a social media following of around two million, had posted a video diary entry to You Tube earlier this month, explaining why he felt women with children were right for grown men when the challenge was issued by a commenter He listed seven things he saw as benefits to dating single mothers.These tips can help you get started on the right foot... But this is your life and you are the one who gets to live it, not someone else. As a single mom, it's easy for your whole life to be wrapped up in your kids.