You’re telling yourself looks are the only thing that matters – and that’s a terribly narrow view on people and relationships. Internal qualities like respect, kindness, and self-esteem are much more rare and precious. That’s a desperate, needy mindset endlessly chasing validation. Because if you don’t, you’re going to jump at the first person who shows you any interest — regardless if they’re right for you. So you see girls and decide they’re out of your league.Those qualities take days, weeks, or months to discover. Usually when guys say, “she’s out my league”, it’s before they’ve even talked to her or gone out on a date. Seek out and invest in people who are compatible with you. Because of that, you don’t pursue them and nothing comes to fruition.They think Nicki Minaj could have “done better” in selecting an eligible boyfriend.
The end of her relationship with Meek Mill doesn’t feel as tragic to many people as Brangelina’s divorce, or even Beyoncé’s ambiguous threats in to leave Jay Z if he “[tries] that shit again.” The general mood seems to be “we saw this coming,” “finally,” or “good for you!And it often takes being intimate to allow partners to open up and start sharing their true selves. To make that call, you’d have to know what she wants in a partner. Think about how she fits preferences: Does she have the qualities you desire? If these leagues exist, it won’t work out and you’ll end up in the same spot anyway.When you stop judging women by their appearance, you’ll stop placing them out of your league. But if you’re wrong, you’ll experience success for yourself and those limiting beliefs will be destroyed.Mandard is often used an an alternative to the modern word "standard".
It is a phrase only to be used by men or a man (hence man-dard).
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