Almost to the extent where they help you develop who you are and come out of your shell to find your true identity.They have already been through this period of growing up and finding themselves, and realize the advantages of embarrassing their true self.
I know this firsthand, as I’m 25 years old, and I’ve been dating an older guy nearly 15 years my senior for almost four years.
Even if they may not open up straight away, they have more of a tendency to take their time to gather their feelings and maturely sit down with you and discuss the matter in hand.
Men in general tend to have difficulty in communicating their feelings, but older men understand it's importance and take the time to try and discuss things with you.
Evolutionary psychologists say that relationships like this often occur because while fertility lasts only from puberty to menopause in women, it starts at puberty and can extend long into midlife for lots of men.
That means there’s a strategic advantage for women to snag an older gent—he’s had more time to accumulate resources and stability than his younger counterparts, which could make him a more viable partner and father.Or, you know, some version of whining about your age. With age (often) comes maturity and chivalry—take advantage!