It’s painful to think about it, but it’s also sadistically reassuring to know that you’re not the only one hurting inside. It feels good to know your ex still hurts and suffers, and thinks about you just as much as you’re thinking about them. [Read: Googling an ex – Online obsessions] I got a call a few times, and I heard no one on the other end. But later that night, I got to know that a friend of mine from out of town was trying to call me and couldn’t hear anything from my end. The next few days saw me jumping with ecstasy and hitting rock bottom with anger and pain.
[Read: How to stop thinking about someone you still like a lot] Is my ex thinking about me? There were many more songs included in the status updates for the next few days ranging from Evanescence’s ‘My immortal’ to Rihanna’s ‘Love the way you lie’.
One of the hardest stages in the relationship cycle is the moving on phase.
A lot of us may have asked the question, “Why am I thinking about my ex? We may have all gone through nights when we couldn’t sleep because thoughts about the ex just wouldn’t stop. I’ve actually come up with reasons why I thought about my ex even after the break up. No Closure Although not all break ups go well, there are those who weren’t even officially declared.
By "some time," I don't mean a few days or a week... I know that sounds like a long time, but here's my reasoning: it's normal to feel like you want your ex back immediately after a relationship ends. But if a month passes by and you still want to be with this person just as much as you did the day after the breakup, that means that maybe things just aren't finished between you two yet. You both need a good amount of time alone to figure things out on your own before deciding you want to get back together Source: Shutter Stock want and what's most important to you. Don't make these expectations too big, though (if they are, that's a sign maybe you guys shouldn't get back together).And even though I’ve known that love can cause as much pain as it can give happiness, I’ve helplessly slipped into the puddle of love far too many times to count.