What’s confusing to me is that I hear a lot of women complain that when men date a lot they are considered studs and when women date a lot they are considered loose, so why all the hate directed at Taylor Swift? She seems to have dated a lot of guys the most of my girl friends admit to having crushes on.
Its understandable that you might want to put yourself in her shoes.
When I was dating and seeing multiple men simultaneously, it rarely lasted.
Most men disappeared after one, two or three dates.
Afterall, you need to look around, see what you like, dont like, etc.
However, if you want to pursue a sexual relationship or both feel that the potential to deepen the relationship is there, then you should become exclusive. Dating is a numbers game, and if you're not dating a number of people, how are you going to be able to find the right person for you?
That way just in case it doesn’t work out with the crush, you still have choices and options.
It’s important to note that just because you have these options, it doesn’t mean you are exercising them, but simply having great people around you will have you putting less emphasis on the situation, which is really attractive to your crush.
And you also avoid sleeping with several guys at the same time which might not be the best thing for you emotionally or physically.Does the public only like Taylor Swift when she is heartbroken, alone and writing a song about it?