I've spent a lot of time on dating apps and I hate a lot of things most guys try to say to me, so I'm the perfect person to tell you how not to approach me.Don’t: Start your message with “hey beautiful,” “hey sexy,” or even worse, “hey girl.” I think most girls would agree with me that having someone I don’t know call me beautiful makes me gag more than…well, my own finger. The way to a betch’s heart is not through her gag reflex." with those we're hooking up with or casually dating.
Once you’ve found someone that catches your eye, look through her photos (as if we had to tell you that).fuck you bitch you're not even cute anyway," I'd literally walk down the fucking street. Also don’t get me started on “” Yes I am a girl, thanks for noticing, Stevie Wonder. Unless you’re an actual rapper or Ryan Gosling, you cannot pull this off.Until that happens, quit using memes as your pickup inspiration, or at least check out some new memes—like, ones that have been created after 2009.A thought provoking, fun, playful message that stands out from all the lame messages cluttering up her inbox. It looks like you have a good sense of adventure, so tell me this: If someone were to offer you an all-expenses paid trip to anywhere in the world but you had to leave in the next hour, where would you go? You want to let her know you’re genuinely interested, but you don’t want to appear desperate for her response.
That’s a major turnoff, so keep it light-hearted: But how many messages should you exchange before you ask her out?
Do: Compliment something specific about my appearance.