This is as true as the fact that the sun rises in the east. In fact, your friendship gets morphed into something alien. It is like this – once you are born and you do not like the world, you cannot go back to your mother’s womb! The same becomes of friendship after dating – once friendship spawns into love, it cannot go back. Well, when your heart breaks, wisdom is the last thing that comes to your mind! However, you need to find your wisdom quickly, if you want to avoid being jeered at by your own guilt that you lost a beautiful friendship with your friend after dating.If love does not work, then the friendship has to die! It will be wise to bring an end to the friendship with mutual respect towards each other’s feelings. Somebody once made a flying remark that made me sit up and take notice.I mentioned my predicament to Jessica, and she excitedly revealed that her good friend had just moved to the city I was visiting.
After the end of our dating relationship three years ago, I was devastated. For the last two years, I was doing all of the hard work and effort to maintain this friendship.
Last week, I bumped into him unexpectedly on evening at a social event when I was spending time with my close friends. I extended my hand to shake his, however he transgressed my boundaries by hugging me.
I was being nice and respectful even though I did not really like him anymore.
We kept things friendly and fun rather than expecting things to turn romantic or physical right away.
By not overtly expecting sex, commitment, or even compatibility upfront, and instead focusing on just creating a series of fun, memorable experiences, we had implicitly set the precedent for a approach to dating.
Or you could actually become friends, turning all of those sour feelings into positive learning experiences and then into an actual, real, true friendship.