It's hard for a guy to commit to one woman if he's got others on his mind—imagine trying to commit if you had a couple of guys on your mind.In life, it's tough to balance love, family, work, etc.But if you are afraid to enter a relationship because you are afraid of getting hurt, you are both a cliche and destined to go nowhere. But don’t make that an excuse for breaking it off if you think it can succeed and make you happy, because it might even make your relationship better. My mom used to yell at me because I was kind of depending on her to fill some of my boyfriend requirements, like being there for me, caring for me when I was sick/stressed/sad, talking to me on the phone, sending me funny pictures of cats, etc.If there are things in his life that demand more attention than his love life, he'll commit to the other stuff and deal with love when he can.It's possible that he's had a bad experience with a past girlfriend, or he's a child of divorce.That may be true for some men, but emphatically not true for most.The fact is, our society encourages men to suppress their feelings, holding up as the role model for manhood the strong, silent type.
So let’s just all agree to be more honest with each other about our feelings, and more kind to one another in our relationships, and hope that some asshole doesn’t break the rules and ram us from out of nowhere, sending us to the chiropractor. You are hiding behind your work/hobby/Law & Order obsession! If your job is standing in the way of the possibility of you feeling happy and fulfilled in a relationship and in love, what else will it stand in the way of? Say the girl you have been seeing always wears culottes. And it drives you crazy and makes you uncomfortable and makes you think “ehh I don’t… Long distance relationships are a shit-ton of work.It’s a vexing issue that has plagued humankind–or at least womankind–for millennia: What really goes on in the mind of a man? These questions probably first came up in the Garden of Eden, when Adam blamed Eve for eating the apple and getting them evicted from Paradise. While it would take volumes to cover everything men want to tell women, here are six of the most prevalent things: “I am not afraid of commitment—I just need to be very, very sure.” It turns out that all this business about men being commitment-phobic is mostly myth.