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I received warm greetings from my fellow participants, all of whom appeared harmless enough that, when the event organizer asked us to sign a waiver releasing him of all responsibility for what followed, I felt fairly confident I didn't need to read the fine print.What ensues is an insightful, touching and often humorous look at how the search for love changes—or doesn’t change—from first love to the far reaches of life.